Masculine Energy VS Feminine Energy

I actually got taught this lesson by a Friend of mine who doesn't have kids but Who's an expert in feminine energy and He said well you know with feminine Energy you want to encourage because Feminine grows through encouragement While masculine grows through Challenge And he was absolutely right because the Moment I changed my Approach I was able To get my daughter to do way more things Than before because when I would Challenge her before she would actually Close down like she wouldn't go for it She would literally just say no I don't Want to do it and no matter how much Encouragement I tried to give her after Challenging her at first it wouldn't Help I learned that lesson once and for All so with her it's all about Encouragement with my boy it's all about Challenges